sunnyside up!

(leave your worries on the doorstep)

sunday veg-out

Our Sundays generally feature two regular events: RJr’s weekly physics/calculus tutoring, and televised Italian Series A soccer.  We schedule the tutoring around the soccer, depending on which match is most interesting to R.  This week there was no question we’d be watching the live broadcast of the Inter/AC Milan game (2:30 EST).

The soccer schedule also dictates the type of midday meal I’ll serve. I decided on things that would be easy to transport into the living room and eat without having to mess with too many utensils — just in case meal time ran into the beginning of the game.  I made an onion and goat cheese tart using the onions FOB gave me last weekend and the recipe given to me by NR.  Also, a spinach and mushroom quiche — presented as spinach and mushroom pie so as not to offend the sensibilities of my real men.  Everything turned out great, but at some point I really do have to learn to make a decent pie crust.  The one I used for the quiche was frozen, and it was slightly sweet and a little mealy.

While the guys watched the game I dozed in the bedroom.  I hadn’t really slept well the night before (I think I was still a bit shocked by the news that my kids are going to have a new, much younger sibling before long), but I couldn’t really get a good nap in either.  Too much stuff spinning around in my head.  Very thankful to have had the Monday holiday to unwind a bit more.  Very thankful for Pink Martini’s encouraging “Hang on Little Tomato” — found the audio available on YouTube, below.

random thoughts on valentine’s day

I don’t have anything for Paul for Valentine’s Day this year.  He said not to bother since I’ve no job hence, no extra spending money, but I usually do like to give him a little something — especially chocolates from Jacques Torres.  Ever since I made the “Master and Commander” valentine (about 4 or 5 years ago) it’s been pretty hard to come up with anything better.

My cousin’s husband, RV, sent his wife some kind of Facebook gift-app valentine.  It was unintentionally funny, too, as it read “Free Love” and I don’t think R, being from another country and not totally up to speed on America’s bizarre cultural history (especially in the 1960s-70s) understood what we think of when we think of “Free Love.”

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I’ve been experiencing a lot of sad feelings lately — I’ve shared some of them with some of you.   Those of you who know the story know that it was a struggle to mend the damage that arose from a particular individual’s selfish and neglectful behavior late last year.  I was just starting to settle down again, after being left so emotionally drained by the whole debacle, when a new chapter of the drama unfolded, setting everything in motion again.  Without having to recap, let me just alert those of you following the soap-opera to this latest plot twist:  the T family tree is sprouting another new and diverse branch — scheduled to blossom in later August/early September.

Having sad feelings is sad, but at least it’s not depression and I can at least feel happy that I recognize the difference enough to know I’m not depressed!

Also: being jobless makes me focus on things of a more urgent nature — sticking to a budget and looking for ways to raise cash and cut costs — and prevents me from indulging in any real regret or self-pity.  Paul tasked me with an activity I’ve been enjoying: rolling up the coins he’s been stashing in his big Arizona Iced Tea one gallon bottle.  So far, I’ve rolled and wrapped about $240 and the bottle is not yet half empty.  The goal is to gather about $1,000 which is what we need for our accommodations in Rome next month.

The Rome trip was planned before I lost my job and the flights are already paid so we just need to save up $$ for the apartment rental.  It will be the last — but most exotic and exciting — of our visits to check out colleges for R Jr.  We’ll be looking at the American University of Rome and John Cabot University, both in the Trastevere section.  I can’t wait!